Singing Tips

3 Reasons the Athlete Mentality is How to Get Better at Singing

Do you want to know how to get better at singing?

How to get better at singing

I see you. Singing in your car. Your living room. You’re pretty sure you have raw talent but... what if you’re wrong? What if you can’t ever figure out how to get better at singing - good enough to become the singer you tell no one that you dream of being?

I’ve been there. 

My path to living out my love of singing was long and scenic. But I’m going to use my experience to shorten the road for you. Ready?

In the following paragraphs, I’m going to teach you all about the single most important mindset shift you can make to successfully pursue your singing goals: The athlete mentality.

And I’ll give you 3 reasons that, if implemented, this shift will become the vehicle to your imminent success. Phew! That’s a big commitment I just made to you. But I’m not scared…

What is the Athlete Mentality?

If you want to know how to get better at singing, from this moment on, start thinking of yourself as an athlete. 

Approach singing the way an athlete approaches a sport by taking into consideration things like:

  • Taking care of your body (your instrument).
  • Keeping a positive, growth mindset.
  • Having a regular workout routine.

Adopting the athlete mentality was life-changing for me and has since been life-changing for countless students I’ve worked with over the years.

If you haven’t previously considered this approach, it will be life-changing for you, too! Let me explain why…

3 Reasons why the athlete mentality is how to get better at singing.

The bottom line is, singing is a sport.

Here is a definition of the word sport from Oxford Languages:

“An activity involving physical exertion and skill in which an individual or team competes against another or others for entertainment.”

Is that not singing in a nutshell? 

  • Physical exertion
  • Skill
  • Competing for entertainment

(Note: You may not be on stage dueling against other singers for a medal, but every time you perform, you’re competing for the accolades of your audience – and if you lose, the venue won’t give you another gig. Singing is absolutely competitive entertainment!)

Each one of these characteristics of a sport is a reason for singers to embrace the athlete mentality.

The athlete mentality builds physical stamina. With the athlete mentality, you’ll build singing stamina without strain or fatigue (four sets tonight? No prob!) and keep that strong healthy voice indefinitely (because, if all goes well, you’ll be singing for decades!). It’s a commitment to a continual growth journey because it’s a lifestyle choice.

The athlete mentality is key to building your technique. Athletes know that any physical skill (including singing) can be improved over time with practice and persistence. It’s the key to reaching greatness. That’s why singer-athletes have a regular workout routine and enjoy seeing the small signs of progress they consistently experience along their path. Instead of “can I get there?” singer-athletes ask, “how will I get there?”

The athlete mentality puts your performance skills on a big-picture trajectory. No single performance (competition) can make or break any part of your journey. Every performance is just another data collection point where you learn from what went well and decide what you’d like to improve upon. The athlete mentality says there are no losses, just learning opportunities. It is about the long game, and the long game is the key to overall success!

How to embrace the athlete mentality.

Some singers find the word “athlete” intimidating. If you are one of those singers, let me ease your mind with some simple suggestions:

  • Develop or find a regular vocal workout routine and implement it a minimum of three times per week.
  • Get your mindset on track with these 2 mantras: (1) Progress, not perfection. (2) Learning opportunities, not losses. 
  • Assess your sleep routine and water intake, and start noting how certain foods impact your body and voice (make changes and re-evaluate if/as needed). 
  • Expand your view of your overall goal. It’s not about a single skill. It’s about the complete package of who you are as an artist, how to best express that person, what success will mean for you, what’s getting in your way, etc…

So... Now you know the truth…

The athlete mentality is how to get better at singing – especially if (like me) you were born a mere mortal with an average voice.

I discovered this later in life – and it helped me realize I needed to do more than sing songs in my living room to get where I wanted to be (and I'm not alone with this idea. You can check out Andrew Byrne's article about ways to practice singing as a sport. Good stuff!)

Here's a simple and super effective way to embrace the athlete mentality and become the singer you dream of.

My 10 lesson (with vocal workouts) course is all about becoming a singer-athlete, which is why it's call the Singer-Athlete Workout Program. It's the foundation of Singer-Athlete Membership, and uses all the tools and knowledge I once needed to become the singer of my dreams. 

Check it out if you're ready to take charge of your singing dream!

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Your Natural EQ and the Transition Between Head and Chest Voices

If any of you have ever worked with mixing boards or PA systems, you know that by tweaking the EQ, which effects the amount of low, mid, and high frequencies, you can greatly change the quality of sound coming from the speakers. Well, your body has a kind of EQ system of its own, and you can use it to enrich your sound and help conceal your transitions into and out of the head and chest voices.

First off, what do we mean when we say low, mid, and high frequencies?

I’m not going to go too deeply into the study of acoustics – mainly because I’m not qualified to. But on a basic level, understand that the voice, as well as other instruments, creates complex wave forms. What that means is, you create a fundamental frequency while also creating other less detectable frequencies called harmonics and overtones.

The fundamental frequency creates pitch. Harmonics and overtones create the quality of sound, which in music, we call the timbre. Timbre is the reason you can tell the difference between a trumpet that’s playing a G and a violin that’s playing the same G.

It’s also why our voices sound unique. Because we each have physical variations in our vocal tracts: the shape of our mouth, the size of our pharynx, the thickness of the vocal folds. These differences cause some harmonics and overtones to be enhanced or decreased or eliminated, thus creating a different timbre even while singing the same pitch.

When you work with a sound engineer, he or she uses electronic EQ settings in the same way, to reduce or enhance harmonics and overtones and thereby effect the characteristics of your sound.

Why am I sharing this with you?

Because I want to encourage you to play around with your body’s EQ settings.

Now, your body’s EQ isn’t as extreme or exact as a piece of electronic equipment. In fact, some might debate whether I should even call it an EQ system. But I want you to think of it that way.

Sing an Ah very low in your range right now. Go ahead. I’ll wait…

Most likely (assuming you REALLY just sang a low Ah), you opened up your throat nice and big to sing that note, which dropped your larynx. Dropping your larynx enhances your low frequencies.

Do it again, this time with your hand on your chest. Do it for real, this time…

You should feel your chest vibrating as you sing that low Ah.

Now, keep your hand on your chest and sing another Ah way up high in your range. This should create much less vibration, or no sense of vibration at all. That’s because lower frequencies vibrate in your chest. I’m not saying that the sound itself resonates down there in your lungs, just that your body experiences those low vibrations in your chest.

In the same way, we tend to experience the vibrations of higher notes in the nose and the nasal cavity behind it. The nasal cavity is not a significant resonating chamber for the voice, but we experience a greater vibration in that area when we sing up high.

Sing another Ah up high in your range, but this time, smile big – with your top row of teeth exposed.

Most likely, singing the high Ah this way effected the quality of the sound compared to the first high Ah you sang, and helped you experience more vibration behind/through your nose (if not, try it again and see if you can create more vibration up there).

I’m not saying that you “placed” the sound of this high Ah inside your naval cavity (as some teachers put it), but because of the way you changed the shape of the mouth, your highs were enhanced, and you experienced a greater vibration in that area. That’s the “feeling experience” you want when singing a strong vowel higher in your range.

Mid frequencies usually create a smaller vibration in both areas, as well as in the back of the throat.

When I start low and vocally slide up to the very highest notes of my range, the feeling experience begins with a strong vibration in my chest. As I approach the mid part of my range the vibration seems centered at the back of my throat, which I’m sure to keep nice and open so the mids can be enhanced. As I continue upward in pitch, I begin to stretch the roof of my mouth and the vibration begins to feel focused there and in my nasal cavity.

If you repeat this slide through your range while intentionally focusing on the feeling experiences I described, you should reach a point where you can slide with no detectable “flip” into and out of your head voice.

When trying to help my students open up their sound, I often tell them to imagine the sound vibrating inside their chests for low notes, in the back of their throats for mid-range notes, or behind/through the nose for high notes. That imagery almost always catalyzes the necessary physical changes to get a full tone throughout their ranges.

But there is an even more useful way to use this imagery.

Despite artistic reasons to sometimes do the opposite, in a general sense, we want our head voice to have a timbre that matches our chest voice. So, here is something for you to experiment with to that end:

Do you remember how the inside of your mouth felt when you sang that high Ah while smiling? Do it again, if need be, to notice how it feels. Then, try to incorporate that inner mouth position (some call it an “inner smile”) into your low notes. While you do this, imagine the sound vibrating inside your nasal cavity. Vary the position to see what changes in timbre you can create while singing low.

What we’re doing here is trying to add “highs” to your low notes by activating the area in your body where highs are experienced.

Now sing a low Ah and pay attention to how it feels in your throat. Then, position your throat as though you’re going to sing another low Ah (larynx dropped) but sing up high in your range. As you do this, imagine the sound vibrating inside your chest.

Now we’re thickening your head voice timbre by activating the area where low frequencies are experienced.

Meanwhile, if you’re moving up through your mid-range on the way to your head voice, be sure that the back of your throat is open to fully experience the vibration passing through that area as it travels from the chest to the nasal area.

It takes time and testing to calibrate what positions work best for you, and in what situations.

Just know that the overall goal is to add highs to your chest voice and lows to your head voice. The more you do this, the less distinct each part of your range will be, and the better you’ll be able to conceal your transitions between head and chest voice.

Time to hit the lab for experimentation. Good luck!

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Why Does My Voice Crack?

We vocal coaches get this question a lot. A lot.

There’s a simple answer: Tension.

But simple answers and easy solutions aren’t the same thing. Once you recognize that tension is the culprit, you have to figure out the source of the tension and then retrain yourself to sing without it. Since I can’t hear or watch you sing to give you first-hand feedback, I’ll discuss the common causes of singing with tension. Then, in the video below, I show you a couple of ways to work out the tension that’s interrupting your song delivery.

Some common causes of vocal tension:

  • Mistaking Volume for Passion: When singers reach the most passionate portion of a song, they often attempt to express the intensity of emotion with volume. Passion can increase volume, but they are not the same thing. Instead of getting louder, intensify your story-telling by feeling the emotion of the words, and let the volume happen naturally – if it’s going to happen.
  • Frustration/Impatience: It seems that newer singers often feel good singers always sing great. Even on a first try of a new song. It’s just not true. Because of this mistaken belief, singers who don’t immediately nail a song can get frustrated, sometimes berating themselves and thinking things like, I’ll never be a singer! This negative self-talk alone will tense a body, but add the sometimes maniacal insistence to “make the song work” in one practice session and you get more and more tension, leading to a worse and worse performance. If you do this, STOP.  Take a break. Not only is singing a journey, but each song you work on is a journey, too. Don’t be a jerk to yourself and let the progress unfold.
  • Tilting your head back: Just about every singer at some point tilted his/her head back while singing higher notes. It’s some kind of human impulse. When you do that, the muscles at the front of your neck have to engage to keep your head from falling backward. I’ve been able to help some students immediately release tension in their singing just by having them lower their chins. Try it!
  • Consonants: I don’t mean to sound judgey but consonants are troublemakers. It’s easy to sing open vowel sounds all day long but then words like “ground,” and “quick,” and “watching” come along and ruin it all with those throat-closing, airflow-stopping consonants. If consonants are getting in your way and contributing to voice-cracking tension, you’re going to have to find ways to alter your pronunciation of them unnoticeably to keep a more open position in your mouth. Or you may just need to jump off of them faster and stay on the vowel sounds longer before getting to the consonants at the ends of words. Experiment with it.
  • A Weak Practice Routine: Yup. I said it. If your voice frequently cracks or shows other signs of tension (gets fatigued easily, for example), there’s a good chance that you have either no vocal workout routine, not a strong enough workout routine, or not a consistent enough workout routine. You may be sick of hearing me say it, but singing is a sport. You have to work out your voice if you want your best athletic performance. End of story.  Enough said.

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